I'm going to a old friends mother funeral how can i best be their for her.?

I found out a friend that i have hardly talked to in seven years mother has died. I asked if their is anything i could do and we should catch if nothing else just to let her i'm their for her. I got a message from her saying when her mums funeral is and i got the impression she wanted me to come. when i asked she said she was really happy for me to come. As far as i know none of our other friends will be their. i don't know her family that much and i don't know what to do when i go their. I will say something if i see her beforehand and i will stay for the service yet should i stay for the wake. I havent been invited to the wake and i don't want to feel like i'm inviting myself. should i just attend the funeral service and send some flowers to the funeral home. Friends say just play it by ear yet i might not have a chance to talk to her after woods my friends mum wasn't religious and they have chosen to have the servicein a garden and it to be non religious. How can i best help my friend.

Good bass songs/remixes?

need some songs with good bass but a decent tune too. not really into dubstep or really heavy grime :/

What should i do for my 14th birthday party...plz help?

I have seven main people to invite and one of them is a boy so no girly things please. I was thinking of a limo or something . ANY SUGGGESTIONS????

Is barbecue grime good for gardens?

i have a barbecue/ smoker, and when i cleaned it off, there was a bunch of black rubble left, is it good fro my garden?

My brother showed me this really good song and i want to find the name of it!?

So there is this AMAZING dance/dubstep song my brother showed me with lots of bass "grimes" and the only word i can rememer is "die". this is not a very good description but if you have any ideas that would be great thanks!

Starting child custody hearing. But my children have not lived with me in two years.?

Nobody here knows all of the facts and therefore could not even begin to guess what the courts will do. However, if you can prove your tax and/or the state aid allegations against him he'll probably end up in jail or at least a hefty fine and the courts will probably remove the children from his custody.

Should I break up with my boyfriend or not?

We have been dating for almost seven months. We get fights sometimes but nothing big. We both really like each other but I just don't know anymore. I don't like any one else. I also definetly want him in my future! What should I do?